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Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Misunderstanding What Love Is...( lame topic)

I myself don't know what love is..but at least i know what's not love...

#Lame thing 1
Many times,thru medias,false information were spread among youngsters and misleading them to the meaning of love. First of all,youngsters might think love is everything.

"As long as we truly love each other, that's already enough.As long as I love him,arguements and conflicts ain't important.I just wanna give my unconditional love,because love can tolerate everything."

If you think so, you really did misunderstand love.
Romantic and dramatic love and sex before marriadge doesn't guarantee "they'll live happily ever after". Because both sides have to take into consideration their living background,believes,attitude and etc.And make an adjustment plus the determination to depend on each other for the rest of their life.

#Lame thing 2
"I fall for you at my first sight." Are you sure???
"Of course I am sure. I'm so attracted to him/her when he/she appears"

"Love at first sight" may not be true love, you might only love his/her looks or personality only. The passion may be lost in a few seconds, but true love may follow you your whole life.

#Lame thing 3
The person could fulfill your desires? You will unnoticibly wish that your lover meet your needs, you thought that love is everything,let you feel satisfied. However, it is always the other way round,you shouldn't force him to fulfill your desires.In real love,you need to give your time,care and share his worries. The most important is you must protect each other,respect each other. Let us learn to understand,we must respect each other,because he is not an object/material.

#Lame thing 4
"I love him/her,therefore I should give him sex/needs to own her body."

Many false informantion again can be obtained from movies,TV,songs or Internet.

"The movie shows this,so everybody should behaves the same way too.What's wrong with that?"


Conclusion... love is blind...but feel it with your heart...have faith and trust~
Cheers! Love can be so beautiful~

p/s: any objections?prompt replies...

by - Wern Sern at 10:39 AM |